Is it a bad sign that I had to initiate conversations with the 2 eMen I went out with last week? It is, right? No matter what I tell myself (like he's just busy or he's shy) the truth is that neither is interested in me. SHIT! And I really liked eDude.
Oh well.
I don't want to waste my time thinking about someone who isn't thinking about me. If I say that enough I might believe it.
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ok. I don't know how to put this except very simply. Statistically speaking, you will have to go through bad dates before you find a good guy. And then probably, you will have a few good dates that turn out to be nothing more than just this: a few good dates. Think about it... The way you select them, the way they select you, the way it happens... it would be incredibly miraculous if out of these two first dates you met true love... So don't lose hope, just collect learning experiences from every date, please please please, try to have fun, and gain confidence.
Do you mean that after your dates with them last week, you didn't hear back from eBoy or eDude, so you waited a few days and then contacted them? Well, you never know. THEY could just be shy. And it's possible they would have initiated if you'd just waited a day or two longer. But I have found in general that it's better to let them make the move. I hate that sometimes! But I've had to learn my lesson about "chasing" people (even if I don't think of it as chasing!).
Dating is hard. Sigh.
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