I've been seeing eGuy for a couple weeks now. Our work schedules aren't in sync so we haven't been able to see each other in person more than once or twice a week. But we've been texting all day every day. We don't go more than 2 hours without texting except when we are asleep. I really felt like I was getting to know him and connecting with him. I really liked him and thought just maybe I had finally found a decent and caring guy who actually cared about me.
Earlier this week we made plans to do something Saturday night. We didn't really talk about what we would be doing, but we had decided it would include alcohol. Neither of us mentioned it again. I figured we would meet up and then go from there.
On Saturday, I didn't get a text from him in the morning. That's very uncharacteristic. He always texts me in the morning. Around noon I decided to text him to see how he's doing. He responded that he was hanging out with family. We texted back and forth a little and I left him to enjoy the fam. I figured he would text me later.
Around 6pm I sent him another text. I thought we were doing something that night and I was surprised I hadn't heard from him. But I didn't get a text back. I waited and waited and still nothing.
I didn't get a text back until 10:30pm. He said "OMG I passed out!" What does that mean? Fell asleep or got drunk and passed out? I don't understand. He also asked what I was doing. I said I was "getting ready for bed." I had spent all night waiting for some communication from him. I was tired and just wanted to go to sleep.
I haven't heard anything from him since. I don't know if that means he is pissed because we were going to get together and I was already turning in for the night. Or if he "passed out" again. Does this mean that we are done? I really hope not because until this happened I really really liked him. I hope I am just misinterpreting what has happened and that we have a chance to talk about it because this is not at all like the person I grew to know and care about. Should I hang on or give up before I get hurt again?
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so it was only yesterday that you were supposed to see each other right? so, I know it is not easy, but I think you should not try to not be too anxious and give him the benefit of the doubt - he might really have passed out - from who knows what? that you will ask him about next time you get a chance - maybe in a couple of hours... missed opportunities happen, second chances too.
If he is worth it, you will know soon.
and definitely, YOU did not make him mad. You were right to answer the way you did.
If someone told me they passed out, I would think they fell asleep. Plus, he asked what you were doing, so maybe he was hoping to meet up late, and if he had passed out from being drunk, he'd be in no mood to go out.
That's my guess, at least. I would stick it out a little longer and see what happens, but if something like that happens again, I'd be careful.
Thank you so much for the support. Hopefully this will all work out. If not, he wasn't worth it anyway.
OMG horrible typo!! I meant to say obviously that you should try to be less anxious not "you should NOT try"... ahhhhh of course of course you had understood but still.
And yes you are right, if it doesn't work out, he was not worth it anyway.
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