I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I decided to take Kev's advice and not contact coffee guy. Kev said to wait him out and so I did. Or rather I still am. I'm not sure if I'm just horrible at reading the situation or men are liars. Might be a little of both. Either way, I'm focusing all my attention on the holidays.
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men are ... well some men are... maybe much more confused than we think.
sorry coffee guy didn't turn out to be such a cool guy after all. He who should be found is still out there :)
I always wait it out and never call a guy first. If he never calls me, then oh well, it wasn't supposed to happen for me.
It used to be that if I liked a guy after a first meeting or first date, I would be sure to contact him if I hadn't heard from him after a day or two. Unfortunately, in the long run it never worked out long-term with any of those guys! (even if we did make it to a second or third date) So, much as my feminist self doesn't like admitting it, I have to agree with Diana -- I now just wait it out, and if the guy is not interested enough to make the effort of contacting me, then we were not meant to be a couple.
I'm sorry, Sarah. :(
I hate that things haven't worked out with the guy, but I still like the advice I gave you and wouldn't hesitate to give it to you again. Like Diana said above, if he doesn't call you...it just wasn't meant to be.
I don't know what this guy's deal was. I don't know why he asked if you'd be interested in dinner if he had no plans to follow through. That's low. Even for a guy, that's low.
Just keep reminding yourself that the right guy is out there for you. "Should I call him or wait him out" and similar dating dilemmas won't matter when it comes to Mr. Right. Those dilemmas aren't needed with him. He'll call you when he says he will call you, and if he asks if you want to have dinner you better believe he'll have every intention of following through.
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