Thursday, July 9, 2009

Wanna give it a try?















I just learned (from True Heart Girl) that eHarm is having a special promotion. $9.95 a month for 3 months (I googled it and here's the link to the codes). That's a fantastic offer. If you've thought about joining, that's an amazing price.

Sadly it's only available to new members.

But it is interesting that as soon as she tweeted me about it I immediately rushed to see if I could do it.

I guess that means I haven't given up all hope yet.

:)

UPDATE: True Heart Girl has helped me again. She found the right code that will work for previous members. I'm going to ponder this for a day or two and then maybe sign up again. Thank you THG!

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Calling it quits




















A couple weeks ago I canceled my eHarm subscription. I was no longer having even potentially meaningful interactions with men and decided it was time for a break. I haven't sworn it off completely, but I'm weary about the whole thing and don't have the sparkle about it that I once had.

That's how I felt 2 weeks ago.

Then I went to my cousin's wedding in Long Beach and heard the sweet story about how he met his new wife on eHarmony. And she was just about to cancel her subscription when my cousin "nudged" her. They met, hit it off, sparks flew, and the rest is history.

As soon as they walked back up the aisle, I was ready to rejoin. I don't want to be alone. I really do want someone to share my life with. And I always thought of eHarm as the last effort. Like when all else fails, go to them and they will find your man.

But I haven't rejoined yet.

My life feels like it's in upheaval. And I know that's not a good time for me to try to be interesting, pretty, fun, entertaining and seductive.

Maybe in another month or two I'll start up again.

I'm not ready to give up. But can God please hurry up and send me the man of my dreams? I'm not getting any younger here.